On the Importance of Personal Development
I have a history of putting the project above everything. I have called it a strong work ethic. Over the course of my software development career, I thought it had served me well. I’ve had descent success, good advancement, great experience, really good money, but not very much of a personal life. I had almost no social life, very few true friendships, dysfunctional relationships, almost no family connection, and mental and physical health problems. This was all my doing. Operating this way caused me to experience severe depression. For several years I have been trying to deal with it. Over the course of this year it became nearly unmanageable, and I finally realized that I couldn’t ignore it any longer. The timing of this realization was unfortunate. I had to put this personal work above the team and the project at a critical time, and that cost me my job. I took a month off and did my personal work. I found what I needed and am feeling much better. This is for anyone out there wh...